It seemed to have come over night. The thoughts racing through my head at a hundred miles an hour. Depressing thoughts that would not seem to leave me alone. This was not me. I grew up in a good family, I’m in a band, I’ve got a fantastic girlfriend. Why am I suddenly sleeping every day and having these suicidal images in my brain? I decided to run away from all of it. I packed my bag with my last meaningful belongings and hit the road. I didn’t have a destination. I didn’t even have a clear thought in my head about my friends, or family, or what was going to happen to me. Thoughts were rubbery and inconsistent. One minute I was thinking about jumping off a cliff, the next minute I would laugh at myself for having such a thought.
After the next few days on the road, I woke up one morning very affected by my surroundings. I was cold, hungry, alone by the river. My mind felt like scrambled eggs and I decided it was time to contact someone. I showed up at my cousin’s house and explained to him that I had found God. His face told me that he thought I was joking. But the more I said, the more concerned he got, and the next thing I knew my dad was there to pick me up. After many frantic hugs and shoulder shakes, I was taken to the hospital and diagnosed with bipolar disorder.
Living Bipolar is no joke. I’m on a ton of medicines that make me feel groggy and weird even though my thoughts have leveled out for the most part and I sort of feel like me again. I’m still in a band, but my friends are always concerned about how I’m feeling or whether or not I’m going to run away again. My grandparents aren’t quite sure how to deal with bipolar living either. The medicine is costing them money, and they keep searching for a permanent cure. If I don’t take my medication, I begin to go back to some crazy corners in my mind and people around me get a little scared because I become unpredictable. I’ve begun going to church pretty frequently because I want to ask God for a solution. I wish living with bipolar disorder didn’t entail a bunch of pills that take me out of myself. But then again I’m not myself when I don’t take the pills either. It’s hard!
I just have to take it one day at a time. My family and I have family time together every evening and talk about normal family things. Like how our day was. How school was. How is the band doing? Do we have a new song yet or any shows coming up? But in the back of my mind there is a constant voice telling me that everyone is judging me for being manic depressive. I wonder if they’re scared of me. They think I could break at any moment. And the sad thing is that I could.
Adjusting to bipolar living is a hard thing to do after leading a semi-normal life for eighteen years. But like Father Brannigan tells me, “A life of struggle should teach compassion.” So I try to be understanding and compassionate. I work real hard every day to get over my aweful feelings of not fitting in. My music is getting better and my drive is getting stronger. With the help of my friends and family, I will use my feelings about this bipolar madness to fuel me on the path to greatness.
